Not sure what you were thinking, but I was talking about one of these kinds of showers, you know, the baby kind. I hear a lot of stories about high school girls and all of the drama they experience with their friends. I don't know if I was lucky, blessed, or a lot of both, but nearly all of my memories of my high school friends are good ones. I had a really great group of friends, high goals, high morals, supportive, and a lot of fun. The best part is that it has all continued twenty plus years later. It was so fun to get together with them, the baby was a perfect excuse. Most of them are a little ahead of me, kids getting married, driving, dating, etc. but a perfect place to pick up a lot of advice. The theme of everyone's advice seemed to be to just slow down and enjoy the baby time - he will grow up way too quickly and the "precious moments" will be gone. Great advice for me. Thanks girls, it was a fabulous night.