Total Pageviews

Monday, April 2, 2012

Dreams of Joy

Not sure how to link it, but back in July of 2009 I reviewed Shanghai Girls by Lisa See. The basic review was that I loved the history and the relationships but hated the ending.  Dreams of Joy is the sequel, it delivered again on the great relationships and historical details, and this time had a great ending. 

See's Dreams of Joy picks up the story of sisters Pearl and May where Shanghai Girls left off: on the night in 1957 when Pearl's daughter, Joy, discovers that May is her true mother. WhileShanghai Girls followed the sisters from their time as models in the glittering "Paris of Asia" to their escape from the Japanese invasion and their new life in Los Angeles, its sequel sends Pearl back to Shanghai twenty years later in pursuit of Joy, whose flight to China is propelled by anger, idealism, and a desire to find her true father, Z.G., an artist who may be falling out of favor with the Party. Joy goes with him deep into the countryside to the Green Dragon commune, where they take part in the energetic inception of Mao’s Great Leap Forward. But their collective dream of a communist paradise is soon overshadowed by hunger as the government’s bizarre agricultural mandates create a massive, relentless famine. Pearl, trapped in Shanghai as travel restrictions tighten, has little idea of the hardship Joy endures--until both women realize they must subvert a corrupt system in order to survive. The best estimates put the death toll from China’s Great Leap Forward at 45 million, and See is unflinching in her portrayal of this horrific episode. In clean prose, she gives us a resounding story of human resilience, independent spirits, and the power of the love between mothers and daughters. --Mari Malcolm

I have been reading a lot of magazines lately and it was great to get lost in a book again.  I was fascinated at the historical parts describing Mao's China.  So much needless suffering.  Perhaps because of my current state, I especially loed all of the mother daughter interactions.  If you haven't read either, do yourself a favor, they are worth your time.  A

Sunday, April 1, 2012

Showers With Friends

Not sure what you were thinking, but I was talking about one of these kinds of showers, you know, the baby kind.  I hear a lot of stories about high school girls and all of the drama they experience with their friends.  I don't know if I was lucky, blessed, or a lot of both, but nearly all of my memories of my high school friends are good ones.  I had a really great group of friends, high goals, high morals, supportive, and a lot of fun.  The best part is that it has all continued twenty plus years later.  It was so fun to get together with them, the baby was a perfect excuse.  Most of them are a little ahead of me, kids getting married, driving, dating, etc. but a perfect place to pick up a lot of advice.  The theme of everyone's advice seemed to be to just slow down and enjoy the baby time - he will grow up way too quickly and the "precious moments" will be gone.  Great advice for me.  Thanks girls, it was a fabulous night.
 
In case you wondered,
Yes, I have gotten bigger.
Loved the sign!


Friday, March 23, 2012

Birthday Boys

So, these two boys, Dad and Tad almost share a birthday
My dad's was the 16th and Tad's the 17th
Too bad we never get to celebrate them together.

Of course the grandkids were oh so happy to help 
Blow out the candles
This was of course after helping to open the presents
 At this point the cake still looks pretty good
Somehow it ended up with a large fingerprint
Miles, you're busted!
Tad got to celebrate like a rock star this year,
Spring Break in Mexico sounds like a
Perfect birthday present to me.
I was lucky and got to be in the room when Tad was born.
What an amazing experience to be one of the first to 
Welcome him to the world.
Funny, I was just thinking about the fact that while poor Julie
Was in labor, we went and got Wendys
I have an entirely new perspective now.

Hope you both had great birthdays!  

Friday, March 16, 2012

Be Born

So Craig sent me the link to this song. I've never heard of the band but it's pretty great. You can listen to it here:

http://youtu.be/9geGPU-AwqI

BE BORN
Tally Hall

I suppose you're quite content in your swimming pool
All you pink-skinned babes are the same
And you can't stay forever young
So get out here and see the sun
You're only six inches away from becoming one
I was in your shoes before (or lack thereof)
And things worked out for me
There's a dozen people here
And they're waiting for you
It's your party, you can cry if you want to
CHORUS
What if I told you I could show you something
What if I told you I could make you live
Follow my instruction, swim in the direction
Of my voice, hear my voice
You think that you've seen it all in your little ball
But man you're wrong and she's been waiting
Long and hard to kiss your head and hold your hands
And hold you while you fall asleep
CHORUS

This might become the theme song in the delivery room. Tim better learn to play the guitar STAT.

Monday, March 12, 2012

34 Weeks

Don't mind the tired eyes, I had only been awake for a few minutes. The bigger I get, the more funny looks I get at the gym. One guy was quite concerned and wanted to make sure that my husband and doctor knew I was there (and yes, they do).

Thursday, March 8, 2012

Joe Dirt

Do you remember the movie Joe Dirt?

Kind of an old cult classic with some seriously funny lines.

I'm pretty sure my nephew is auditioning for the remake.

How can you not love a kid with the guts

To have that haircut.

Friday, March 2, 2012

Since I'm Having One...

15 Things Boys Should Know Before They Turn 18
Taken from http://http://www.ooph.com/topics/health-image-behavior/653/15-things-boys-should-know-before-they-turn-18

There are some key things your sons should know before they leave home. Here are my top 15.
1. The kitchen? Not just for girls. Learn to use a stove.
2. If a girl tries to change you she doesn’t really love you no matter how much you want her to.
3. Shower daily, keep your nails trim and use deodorant.
4. A dutch oven is never funny. EVER.
5. It is NEVER acceptable to break up with a girl over the phone.
6. Understand how to use basic tools.
7. When you ask a girl, “Is something wrong?” and she says, “No.” She’s lying.
8. The job of a stay-at-home mom is equally as hard as yours.
9. Table manners. Use them.
10. You will never know a stronger pull than that of your friends trying to get you to participate in their wrong doing. Resisting makes you a man. Succumbing makes you a coward.
11. NEVER use your fists to solve ANY dispute. One wrong punch could take a life and it could be yours.
12. Condoms will save your life.
13. Never use the word gay in a derogatory manner. It’s ignorant.
14. Sexting is a federal offense.
15. Real girls do not look like Victoria’s Secret models.
What would you add?